Learn how to have your own back - even on the hard days

60-minute workshop to teach you self trust and clarity

If everything feels a lot right now.

And everyone else seems to cope...

Here's what you don't realise:

You're not just dealing with a hard situation.


You're dealing with a hard situation PLUS an inner critic comparing you to other people.

Now you're dealing with two things, not one.

No wonder it feels overwhelming...

If you're telling yourself you should be handling things better

And you know this is not helping

You could use some tips on how to be a bit more kind to yourself.

I am guessing you're here because

  • You want to feel less overwhelmed when everything's piling up.
  • You want the voice in your head to stop making everything feel more impossible.
  • You want to feel like you can cope (even though you're barely coping).
  • You want to stop feeling guilty for struggling.
  • You want some breathing room in your own head.
  • You want to stop the constant "I should be handling this better" thoughts.
  • You just want everything to calm down.



    If you're wishing the situation would just get better, you'd feel OK, this workshop is for you.

The situation being hard is one thing.

The way you're treating yourself about it is another.


...And the way you treat yourself - that's what turns hard into unbearable.

Most people never realise this is happening.


They think they're just bad at coping. 


They don't notice they're managing two separate battles:

  • The actual difficult situation
  • The inner voice telling them they're failing


Of course you're exhausted.  But it does not have to be this way.

In This Webinar, You'll Learn 5 Things


1. What's actually making everything feel impossible

Not just the hard situation. The layer of self-criticism on top of it that you don't realise is there.  And what to do about it.

2. The difference between the situation and what you're telling yourself about it

One is real and difficult. The other is making it unbearable. Learning to see the difference changes everything.

3. What "having your own back" actually means

Not toxic positivity. Not pretending everything's fine. But identifying useful tools you can use to transform how you deal with everyday real life situations.

4. How to stop the spiral

The specific thoughts that turn "this is hard" into "I'm failing." Once you can see them, you can interrupt them.

5. What to actually do when the overwhelm hits

The simple, repeatable questions to ask yourself when everything feels impossible.

Here's what you will learn

In this transformative 1 hour workshop

  • Strategy for to do when the overwhelm hits

    and how to maintain high value action without hitting burnout

  • A better understanding of what struggling DOESN'T mean

    We'll learn practical tools to stop the spiral with more compassion

  • How to interrupt the patterns that make everything harder

    We'll learn The Compassion Strategy you can use anytime you get stuck to keep you on track

Special Bonuses:

When you sign up for the 60 minute live class, you will also get

  • Workshop replay - Value £27

  • Reflection workbook + journal prompts - value £47

  • Email Follow Up Support for 7 days - value £350

  • A toolkit to help shift what is holding you back, even on the hard days - Priceless

The Details

  • When?

    31st March 2026, 7pm GMT

  • Where?

    Zoom (replay will be available)

  • How much?

    £9

Who is this for

This one is for you if you:

  • Things feel impossible

  • You're exhausted from trying to hold it all together

  • You feel like everyone else is coping better

  • You're constantly replaying everything you're getting wrong

What You'll Walk Away With

A strategy when the overwhelm hits

The knowledge how to have your own back when things are hard

Permission to be struggling without judging the hell out of yourself for it

Some breathing room in your own head (and life)

Learn How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy

Course curriculum

    1. Welcome!

    1. Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy - workshop replay video

    2. Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy - Workshop Slides

    3. 🔑 Session Themes

    4. 🎯 5 Conceptual Points

    5. ✏️ Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy - Worksheet

    6. ❓ Workshop Quiz

    1. Class feedback

    2. Are we friends?

    3. Suggested Next Steps

About this course

  • £9.00
  • 10 lessons
  • 1 hour of video content

Who am I?

Hi, I'm Anna, also known as HeardinLondon

I'm Anna, a mindset coach, empowerment photographer, feminist, Buddhist and circus expert, and I have spent over two decades focusing on social justice and how to find creative solutions to help people reclaim their bodies and minds. I am a confidence coach for people who hate having their photograph taken. I believe by taking on the responsibility to do our own work, we resource ourselves to support more people. I have helped thousands of people untangle the stories they tell about themselves, so they can lead more joy-filled, relaxing lives. I am on a fierce mission to equip people with the mindset tools they need to break through their own self-sabotage and live their wildest dreams. We all deserve that. And I don't think we should all magically know how to manage our minds, if no one ever teaches us.

Anna HeardinLondon

Confidence coach and empowerment photographer

FAQ

  • Will this be recorded?

    Yes. Register and you'll get the replay even if you can't make it live.

  • What if my situation really is impossible?

    This doesn't make impossible situations possible. It stops you making genuinely hard situations unbearable by how you treat yourself about them. That's the difference between drowning and coping. That is what this course is about.

  • What if I can't cope with more information right now?

    This isn't more to do. It's about stopping one specific thing you're already doing (without realising) that makes everything harder. Most people find it creates space, not adds pressure.

Imagine it's 30 days from now

Life is still lifing - but that innner critic just got a lot more quiet

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